Two Wheelchairs, One Soul Message: A Higher Perspective on Grief, Death, and Eternal Connection
- Solarys
- Apr 13
- 4 min read

There are moments in our lives that feel like the turning of great cosmic pages.
Today was one of those moments.
This morning, as I sat quietly reflecting on the two people I have loved in this lifetime — my beloved father and my dearest best friend. I felt called to revisit the last photos I had of them, looking at the two side by side. They were both seated in wheelchairs, both looking out into the horizon as if gazing into the next chapter of their soul’s journey. Two images, two souls, two endings — yet somehow, they wove together into a single thread of awakening. The synchronicity was undeniable.
My father, during his final days in hospice, watching the sun melt into the sky. My best friend, who I could not see in her final days, yet somehow she left behind a photograph for me — as if to send a silent, cosmic message across the veils of time and space. It felt like a secret conversation between them, and between them and me. A remembrance of soul contracts. A remembrance of ancient promises we once made to one another. A remembrance of why I am here.
For so long, I carried quiet guilt about how things unfolded. I wished I could have given my father the peaceful home passing he desired. I wished I had been closer to my best friend in her final days. The "if only" thoughts had lingered like heavy clouds in my heart.
But this morning, as I looked at these two photos side by side, I felt something new.
A realization, as clear as sunlight breaking through fog:
This was never about where they sat in their final days. This was about where their souls soared — and the role I played in that sacred journey.
The wheelchair did not define their dignity. Their illness did not define their worth, and my perceived "failures" did not diminish the love we shared or the soul work we accomplished together. What I once saw as helplessness, I now see as preparation.
What I once felt as guilt, I now understand as grace. Their paths and mine were always intertwined — not to save them from their human experience, but to walk with them through it, to honor their passage, and to allow their soul contracts with me to unfold exactly as they were meant to.
It was never about "fixing" their fate — it was about holding the light in the darkest corridors of life. My father and my best friend are now teaching me this, from their place of higher vision. They showed me that their final days were not failures — they were activations, initiations for my soul’s next chapter.
They whispered:
"You, beloved, were the bridge. You still are. Your love rippled across the veils and lifted us higher. You did not fail us. You fulfilled our sacred contract. You awakened."
Channeled Message from My Father and My Best Friend
"We were never far from you. We were always within you. You did not fail us — you carried us. Your hands, your voice, your love were part of our bridge home.
Even from the wheelchair, even in those final sunsets, we were not diminished — we were expanding, remembering, and readying ourselves for our next chapter.
Release the weight of guilt. Honor the role you played. And now, continue your journey as the bridge you are — for others, and for yourself.
Our love did not end at the finish line of life. It continues, through you, in every breath, in every step.
Keep going, beloved soul. And know: you are never alone.
Forever yours,
Your Father and Your Best Friend"
An Invitation to See Grief Differently
Beloved souls,
If you carry sorrow in your heart — if you feel guilt or regret over how your loved ones transitioned, let me gently offer you this perspective:
🌿What if everything unfolded exactly as it was meant to?
🌿What if your presence, your love, even in imperfect circumstances, was the medicine your loved one’s soul needed most?
🌿What if your guilt is a veil clouding the deeper truth — that you were already doing far more than you realized?
🌿What if, in their final moments, your loved ones were not looking for perfection of circumstances, but for the perfection of presence?
The human mind believes in stories of "not enough." But the soul knows only completion. The soul knows: Love is the only thing that crosses the veil.
🌿 Love transcends all circumstances. 🌿 Death is not an ending, but a transition. 🌿 And our soul connections are eternal.
Your love is never wasted. Your prayers are never unheard. Your presence, simply by being, transforms the spaces around you.
Trust in this. Lay down your guilt, and lift up your heart.
You are already more than enough.
With the deepest love, and with gratitude for your heart,
Solarys
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